User blog comment:Morganaforever/Why NOT to hate on Morgana/@comment-4892425-20121015001206/@comment-4650675-20121015142959

Hey Fimber, no, there's no proof for what you are saying about Morgana in the first part of your answer, it is more of a speculation.

The reason she expected Ruadan to accept that is because he sent his own daughter as a spy!!!! There was always the possibility of her getting caught, and Ruadan is smart enough to know at least that much.

I don't think that Morgana told him to forget about her. However, infiltrating Camelot would be his death, and Morgana knew that. Not wanting to lose another ally and friend, she told him that his daughter died for the right cause, in order to ease his pain. Even after getting his letter, she was not mad at him, which means she understood his reasons.